This free calculator helps you compare the financial and lifestyle impact of two major retirement paths: aging in place using a reverse mortgage to fund in-home care, or selling your home and moving to a retirement community or care facility. Simply enter your age, home value, current balance, and select your reverse mortgage product type (such as FHA HECM or Proprietary Jumbo). Then, input your expected in-home care hours, care type, and home upgrade costs, or test what selling your home and moving into an independent or assisted living facility would look like. The calculator compares both scenarios side by side, showing how much equity you retain, your monthly and 10-year costs, and how long your sale proceeds would last in a retirement community. You will also see how a reverse mortgage can help eliminate your monthly mortgage payment, cover in-home care expenses, and support a financially and emotionally balanced retirement plan. This tool is ideal for retirees evaluating the true cost of staying home versus selling, giving you a clear picture of your options before making one of life’s biggest financial decisions.
The calculator estimates the monthly and long-term financial outcomes of staying in your current home versus selling and moving into a retirement or care facility. It factors in home value, in-home care costs, reverse mortgage proceeds, taxes, and sale proceeds to show which option better fits your financial and lifestyle goals.
A reverse mortgage allows you to eliminate your monthly mortgage payment and access a portion of your home equity as tax-free funds. These funds can be used to cover in-home care, home upgrades, or other living expenses, helping you stay in your home longer while maintaining financial flexibility.
If you sell, you’ll access your home equity as cash proceeds but may also face capital gains taxes and housing costs in your new community. The calculator estimates how many years your sale proceeds could cover living expenses in a retirement or assisted living facility.
While the calculator focuses on financial outcomes, it helps clarify trade-offs so you can consider emotional and lifestyle aspects with better context. Many retirees find that aging in place offers comfort and familiarity, while selling can provide convenience and reduced upkeep.
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer. The best choice depends on your health, finances, support network, and personal preferences. This calculator gives you the numbers you need to start the conversation with family or advisors and make a confident, informed decision.
After reviewing your estimate, you can request a free, no-obligation consultation with a licensed Reverse Mortgage Advisor to receive a detailed analysis.
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